Recent reports of tragedies locally and nationally serve as reminders that domestic violence incidents should not be taken lightly.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reports that domestic violence results in about 1,200 deaths and more than 2.5 million injuries among women and men each year.

In 2015, there were approximately 250 misdemeanor arrests for domestic violence within the city limits. While these arrests may have helped defuse dangerous and tragic situations, some of the more volatile offenders are slipping through the cracks.

Law enforcement and the courts generally become involved with domestic abuse cases when someone — such as a victim, family member or bystander —initiates a call for help. Sadly, some victims miss their opportunity to call and the effects are devastating for their families and communities.

These “missed calls” are in large part due to the complicated nature of domestic violence and the values, perceptions and beliefs held by victims, abusers and society as a whole.

4Victims who don’t identify themselves as victims and try to cope because they blame themselves for their situation, they depend on their abuser for financial and emotional support or they want to avoid possible retaliation from their abuser.

4Abusers who may have problems with substance abuse, depression, stress, self-esteem or other factors and react by using manipulative tactics to control and terrorize their partners.

4A society that doesn’t always understand why it’s so hard for a woman (or man) to simply pack up and leave an abusive relationship or why an abuser can’t just go get some help for his/her problem.

4The dynamics of a domestic violence incident are far more intricate than a bar fight. And, the consequences are far-reaching and long-lasting, affecting multiple generations. Children who grow up in violent households are more likely to continue the trend. Physical and emotional injuries, incarceration, shame, embarrassment, etc. all have an impact on the support and sustenance needed to care for and nurture a family.

My charge to the community is to fully support domestic violence awareness efforts. October is designated as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, but this is an epidemic that needs our day-to-day attention.

What can you do? Be more sensitized to verbal and silent cries for help. Don’t be afraid to speak up or seek assistance for someone in need. Invite domestic violence counselors from agencies such as the Haven House Family Shelter to speak to your church, youth or community group about resources available. And, most importantly, offer daily prayers for all who are trapped in this dangerous cycle.

Judge Toni Walker Terrett presides in Vicksburg Municipal Court.