Special prom may be best prom of all

Published 10:39 pm Friday, April 15, 2016

My neighbor Sandra Brooks asked me if I could substitute for her class. This was years ago when we still lived next door to each other on Summerhill Drive.

I admit I was not one who had been called to be a teacher, but I had gone ahead and signed on to be a substitute so I could earn a few extra dollars.

I showed up at the school ready to take the reigns of her special needs classroom, and after two days of working with the children, I retired.

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I have always thought teachers are a superior breed, and out of those who choose to work with children with disabilities, I think their hearts must be made of solid gold.

This week, I had the opportunity to return to a classroom, but it was for pictures and an interview.

I was doing a story about Warren Central High School’s Special Prom and was there to talk to Coach Lucy Young, one of the initiators of the event, and some of the kids involved.

I have always been impressed when I walk into a classroom and see children behaving and working diligently.

I do not know what kind of magic it is that teachers use to hold the attention of more than one child at a time, but I sure could use some of it as a mother of four.

Coach Young introduced me to the students, and then I began asking different children about Special Prom.

The kids were shy at first, but they warmed up after Coach Young encouraged them to tell me what they liked about the event.

One of the girls described her dress to me, and several talked about the tasty food served.

One of the guys I talked to pulled out his cell phone to show me a picture of himself in the suit he would be wearing for the special day.

He was so proud.

Afterwards, Couch Young told me the young man lived at the homeless shelter. He had no parents that were around to take care of him, so those at the shelter had stepped in and were even making sure he looked good for the big event.

Whoa! What absolutely unbelievable unconditional love.

It sure felt good to hear this after everything that has been going on with Mississippi House Bill 1523.

I have been so disheartened that our state leaders would have passed a bill targeting someone just because they were “different,” and it was nice to be surrounded by individuals who wrapped their arms around differences.

I have never been to Special Prom, but Coach Young handed me an invitation before I left.

It is scheduled for next Friday at the school, and I plan to be there and revel in celebrating diversities.

About Terri Cowart Frazier

Terri Frazier was born in Cleveland. Shortly afterward, the family moved to Vicksburg. She is a part-time reporter at The Vicksburg Post and is the editor of the Vicksburg Living Magazine, which has been awarded First Place by the Mississippi Press Association. She has also been the recipient of a First Place award in the MPA’s Better Newspaper Contest’s editorial division for the “Best Feature Story.”

Terri graduated from Warren Central High School and Mississippi State University where she received a bachelor’s degree in communications with an emphasis in public relations.

Prior to coming to work at The Post a little more than 10 years ago, she did some freelancing at the Jackson Free Press. But for most of her life, she enjoyed being a full-time stay at home mom.

Terri is a member of the Crawford Street United Methodist Church. She is a lifetime member of the Vicksburg Junior Auxiliary and is a past member of the Sampler Antique Club and Town and Country Garden Club. She is married to Dr. Walter Frazier.

“From staying informed with local governmental issues to hearing the stories of its people, a hometown newspaper is vital to a community. I have felt privileged to be part of a dedicated team at The Post throughout my tenure and hope that with theirs and with local support, I will be able to continue to grow and hone in on my skills as I help share the stories in Vicksburg. When asked what I like most about my job, my answer is always ‘the people.’

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